Great Quote: "Every Broken Heart is a Chance for a New Beginning" - From the movie Phoenix
Want someone who has had their fill of playing the field and truely ready to settle down and share a life. Someone that can share a Friday night dinner, a holiday, a vacation, a birthday, a Sunday morning in bed, a rainfall, a glance, a heart...in all...sharing all the good and bad that life brings knowing through it all you both are together and can endure it all.
Not asking a lot in my opinion...just someone ready to settle down and is READY. Thank you for so many likes and winks from across the country. I see there are so many like me that are searching for "the one" and a future...and not just a "tonight".
Your pictures must match who you are - that is a first turn off for me...I don't want to click on a profile and watch an age progression to what you really are now. - a flashback favorite pic is ok but show some current too -..starting with only out dated photos that is dishonest and won't lead to anything of substance in dating.
I think we all have our best match out there...for me I don't want someone older than 58 as I am a very young soul and just seem to click with someone younger (sorry guys...it's just my preferrences) . I also want a guy that is DDF and HIV- (again just dating preference...I have met great guys and have friends that are HIV so not prejudice at all).Young is fine too...when I was 24 I dated this guy 35 and I remember then thinking "he is so much older than I" - but in reality it was one of the best relationships I had...he took me places and we did trips, broadway shows, nice dinners out - some of the stuff at that time I couldn't always afford to do....and he made me see life differently. So for those of you that are 22-35 and are SO against a guy in his 40's - just remember....we are stable, more honest and faithful.....and more generous than that guy your age you went out with last night that is seeing someone else already tonight...LOL. Just an opinion but I laugh at the guys in S. Florida who only date within 5 years of their age! REALLLY? I recently met a guy on here 22 years old and my guard was up but we met and he was an amazing individual. I wish things had worked out differently...we clicked...we laughed...and we had that spark...but he wasn't ready for a serious relationship. That hurt...but we stayed friends...and from every experience we grow.
I have been in Lauderdale almost 6.5 years now...and I have found dating here extremely hard. I guess coming from the Midwest...we just have a different outlook on dating. If your first question for me is "what do you drive" - we need to be less materialist and more genuine. I want someone that will do fun stuff like putt-putt golf, walking the beach, an art show, going to Disney or Key West...or just together making a dinner that just we share over candlelight.
I am hoping to find someone local as I already travel for work... I appreciate all the great messages and winks from across the country but I find it hard to answer to thank all of you so if you don't hear from me and you live elsewhere I do thank you - I just may not get the chance to respond. I check this site about twice a week
Body wise...I like a guy that is fit or working out. I am not a muscle boy by any means but I'm watching my diet, working out and hoping to learn from another person or have that workout buddy to share that with. Love bicycling and tennis so that is a plus in my Match too.
I'm a good soul...and was always just hoping to find that guy to watch a sunrise with to start the day, and cuddle up with (and more!) at sunset. Hard to believe that I'm in one of the gayest cities in the U.S. and single for over two years...but I do only want to date my match...and not just date to date. I hope that someone out there appreciates that there are some of us that may be choosy in selection but you are getting someone with a lot less "dating Miles" on them!