Hi, it's me. Thanks for looking here. I'm 6'1" hovering around 180 lbs., so I'm basically where I "should" be as far as those body mass index scales are concerned (!). Depending on your perspective, I could run the gamut between slender, average, and fit. A word about masculinity: I have a masculine look, but my personality is usually on the gentle, not necessarily feminine, side, so if you're looking for a lumberjack, this might not be the place for you! Just to be up-front: I'm not a party animal, I don't smoke or take drugs, and I don't look down on people who do. In fact, I try not to see myself as above or below anyone. I usually have 4-6 oz. of dark red wine each night for the heart. I'm also not a drama queen, but I do have intense OCD. You need to know that. If you really want to impress me, then try to understand this condition of the brain, mind, heart and soul. I certainly don't want to make demands on a future lover, and place a tall order as so many do, but the understanding of this complex disease and disorder and those afflicted with it is so near and dear to my heart. It's just where I have found myself. I love romance, minus the mind games. Intimacy is more important to me than sex (hope that doesn't frighten you), and I'm definitely a safe sex kind of guy in this day and age. I am looking for a man whose good and bad points and strengths and weaknesses I can basically accept as is. Hope you will do the same for me. I am actually a nice guy, however . . . box me into a corner, and I'll come out swingin'!
