Hi there ladies... it's been tough finding what I'm looking for in So Cal and I know you all can relate. So let's give each other a chance and see what happens. At the very least we can garner an excellent experience. My match isn't desperate or looking for something perfect, but rather seeking someone they can reflect off of and attain an attraction and deep connection with, sometimes immediate, sometimes gradual. I want to be able to find trust and sincerity with my match while enjoying moments of laughter and joy even through the tough times.
I like a woman with humility, kindness, intelligence, self-confidence, and who is considerate and has the ability to laugh at any moment. She feels sexy about herself and finds me sexy. She is open to new experiences and thoughts and willing to share her own. She doesn't accept the boring stereo-types and norms of life but rather has an open mind to what I and others have learned and experienced.
She is independent yet seeks my security and comfort from time to time as I am a person who loves to be needed occasionally and loves to give the one he cares about a big hug and a feeling a warmth.
I have been very careful the past few years in getting into something serious - maybe too careful - but I know my time will come soon as my focus is clear.
Well...let's begin!
