This is hard but let's see. I and others would describe me as intelligent, funny, active, and charismatic . I am very fortunate to have a life filled with family and friends I love e.g., my 18 yr. old sweet and intelligent son, hobbies and interests that drive me and make me dream e.g., running my first marathon, 18th century classic literature, a job as a clinical social worker that feels more like a calling than simple employment etc. An independent, kind, intelligent, and light-hearted man would definitely make me raise an eyebrow !!!