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53 year old man
Plantation, Florida, United States

Seeking:
women 40-60
Within:
30 Miles of Fort Lauderdale, Florida, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
Occasionally
Drink:
Never

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I am a 53 year old divorced father of two grown sons. The love of my life is my dog. I am a non-practicing attorney with a comfortable income and my time is my own. I consider myself a decent guy, mellow, laid back, even tempered, romantic, passionate, impulsive, fun etc., etc. However I am also far from perfect, not a hard worker, too impulsive at times …. Point: If you are seeking perfection I don't fit the bill.
For me this is a relatively new mindset. I spent many years working very hard prating a profession I excelled at but never enjoyed. I come from a family that has a lot and expects a lot (would say more but this is the net). Anyone want to get out of the rut together? I am a romantic and simply don't enjoy life as much and miss out on a lot when alone.

As for mindset best to be honest: I am a realist and based on the facts that I have only been on four dates since divorced and my last relationship was with my ex (we get along well and her husband is now one of my best friends) I keep my expectations low when it comes to dating these days. I don't like conveying a negative attitude but I personally like knowing where people are coming from as for me the info sometimes helps to understand as opposed to judging and often avoids mistaken assumptions.

As for a partner, someone who is as comfortable being around me as I am around them would be great. Attraction is obviously important however I am not looking for a beauty queen nor do I have any particular picture in my mind. I find many women attractive and frankly place more importance on other factors. That for some reason does not sound right; Hollywood, plus recently dating sites, in my mind have warped thinking regarding the level of attraction required to make a good couple. If two people are comfortable together and feel passion, then attraction exists (once again I only speak for myself). Interesting however that when I think of the happiest couples I have known, who have weathered the storms so to speak, they don't seem to have found each other by seeking perfection.

I have no list of things I am looking for in a partner and I keep an open mind; I have no idea who may be a great match and don't want to rule anyone out based on some issue that is not all that important. A few traits that would be nice would be someone who is not judgmental, a bit adventurous, whose life does not revolve around work and who is not only looking for a relationship but willing to take the time to build one on a strong foundation.

Finally my match should be willing to jump into the sack on the first date (sorry I do not mean that, it struck me as funny so I wrote it down; while I am aware it would be in my best interest to delete this I am having a hard time doing so at the moment.

I truly hope to I find someone soon or my options will narrow down to turning gay or becoming a priest; problem is the first does not sound all that appealing to be quite honest and as for being a priest I know myself and would do something fun but stupid out of sheer boredom fairly quickly.

Well on the off chance you anyone reaches this point and has any questions please ask.

My best to all.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Exploring new areas, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Football, Skiing, Swimming
Exercise habits:
I exercise 1-2 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

A very friendly blue nose male, and my baby, a lab mix female.

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Virgo
College:
Furman University, Greenville, SC
For fun:

Spend time kayaking, walking my dog, weekend trips all over Florida, especially Key West in late April, long weekends out of town. Also simply mellowing out and watching movies at home. cooking on the grill. More but as typical no space.

Favorite hot spots:

Basically fun places around Miami (where I grew up) and Ft. Lauderdale but I am not into the club scene at all. As for restaurants I enjoy eating on the water. Also there are some great places in Key West.

Favorite things:

My sons, classic rock, fast cars, building gaming PCs, movies with my sons, weekend trips, especially Key West (a must in April); hell this is taking too long if interested please ask.

Last read:

WSJ

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'11" (180cms)
3'0" (91cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, Big and beautiful, About average, Curvy, Full-figured, Heavyset, A few extra pounds
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
Occasionally
No Way, Occasionally, Daily, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Never
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Legal
Administrative / Secretarial, Artistic / Creative / Performance, Executive / Management, Financial / Accounting / Real Estate, Labor / Construction, Legal, Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness, Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Retail / Food services, Retired, Sales / Marketing, Self-Employed / Entrepreneur, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Travel / Hospitality / Transportation, Other profession, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Law enforcement / Security / Military, Fashion / Model / Beauty, Architecture / Interior design

No longer practice law but have steady comfortable income and plenty of time on my hands

Income:
$150,001+
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (2)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Hindu, Jewish, Spiritual but not religious, Other, Christian / Other

Not into organized religion, or unorganized for that matter.

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
High school

J.D.

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