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57 year old man
Vista, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-49
Within:
25 Miles of Vista, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
Want kids:
Probably not
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
Faith:
Agnostic
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I have been alone for a long time meaning that I rarely date, and when I have there hasn't been a connection in any real sense other than a fun evening now and then for literally years. That could mean that I am either picky or nuts or difficult or crazy or all of the above! Or, it could mean that I am not indiscriminate. But I think it means that I am a very different kind of man looking for a very different kind of woman and am willing to wait even if it means never if that makes any sense.

My ex-wife describes me as a tootsie roll pop, hard but sweet on the outside with a soft chewy center. And no, I don't carry a flame for her but we are great friends and as she is the mother of my children, I am not going to kick her under the bus so to speak.

I see myself, and who knows how accurate that is I concede immediately, as a true intellectual with a genius IQ (I share this only as a reference point. As the Talmud says, "A great mind without a great heart is nothing.") who longs for connection with a woman but not at the price of compromising basic values or making room for crazy. I have had enough of that in my life as I am pretty sure we all have. I would rather be alone than in one of those relationships where we need couples counseling while dating.

I seek a certain kind of woman and in a perfect world she would be 35-48-ish, slim or slender, a non-smoker , a light drinker if at all, a foodie, well traveled, a reader, silly and goofy, natural with minimal plastic surgery and preferably none at all, little or no make up, hates high heels as I do (I consider them medieval torture devices), outdoorsy, non-judgmental and doesn't pretend to be open while hating those that disagree with her, libertarian, agnostic or atheist but without looking down her nose at those with faith, sexually free spirited and adventurous, great teeth, has lips (can't stand those almost negligible ones some people have. They remind of slits in a piece of paper), any race, and most of all, gets me. Oh, and she doesn't hate or obsess about her ex. That is a biggie! I find a person can get over angry, but once they go bitter, they never come back and I don't want to be anywhere near that.

And I am hard to "get". I am an extroverted introvert so I can be the life of the party when need be but in the end, when I am home I prefer it without a crowd and with just my one and only to share. The truth is that in my entire life I have entertained guests in my home exactly never. I don't care theoretically if my Other does. Have at it, but it's not my thing but I will participate with a smile. I am really unique or totally nuts. I have no idea which, but I hope to find the woman that is interested enough to find out.

Oh, and here comes the shallow denouement: If you are older than me, overweight, smoke or drink a lot, are religious and attend church all the time, have lied in any way in your profile, well, save yourself some time and don't write. I won't respond. Finally, when I am clear like this it has been my experience that the bitter crazies find it impossible to resist letting me have it and lecture me on my preferences. Don't bother. I want what I want, am happy as I am so feel no desperation, and if the "one" for me doesn't exist, well, I have four great kids whom I adore and adore me back, a wonderful grandson and I hope a lot more someday, and am cool with single and celibacy! LOL
Now a few notes about things that both make me laugh and cringe and are automatic disqualifiers:

1. All pics in sunglasses. Seriously. Let's see those eyes.

2. A bunch of pics taken when the woman in question was much younger and then mixed in there, always taken at a distance, one honest one. What's the deal with that? Does anyone think that makes it okay to lie about the rest? Or that I wouldn't notice? Seriously.

3. Pics of young children. Ladies. It's the internet. Use some judgment.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Shopping/Antiques, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Billiards / Pool, Cycling, Football, Golf, Dancing, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

I love my basset hound, the currently most important woman in my life! That said, she has room for me seeing others! ;-)

Political views:
Non-conformist
Sign:
Taurus
College:
The University of Arizona, Tucson, AZ
For fun:

Read, travel, fish, fly, converse, and just plain have fun. It would be easier to say what I won't do, which is most things illegal and anything that really hurts!

Favorite hot spots:

Europe, the Caribbean and especially the French islands, Miami Beach, California wine country for the quick get away, Mexico in spots, and the list goes on and on.

Favorite things:

Favorite food- Pizza, Favorite color- sky blue, Favorite thing to do when it's raining outside- Smell the air and just think. I like to buy not shop. TV is a guilty pleasure. I read constantly. And I never met a tie I would enjoy wearing.

Last read:

Ever since I bought my first Kindle, I have been reading A LOT! I alternate between serious and silly. I'd list the last thing I read but there are so many all the time. Reading is my favorite way to spend alone time.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'3" (190cms)
4'11" (149cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Salt and pepper
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they live away from home (3+)
No answer
Want kids:
Probably not
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Asian, East Indian, Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

When I married a shiksa, my mother gave me a speech about being the first one in our family to do that in history. I replied that is unlikely as given my height, eye color, and skin tone someone was shtupping a Russian somewhere in the past!

Faith:
Agnostic
No preference

I am a dedicated pastafarian! Bonus points if you know what that is and if not, it's fun!!

Languages:
English, French, German, Italian, Russian, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Some college, Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

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