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42 year old man
North Hollywood, California, United States

Seeking:
women 25-40
Within:
50 Miles of North Hollywood, California, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
Definitely
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent, White / Caucasian
Body type:
Slender
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Being not too fond of labels, per se, I admit there are several that could apply to me. So, if I were to choose the one most relevant to me, it would be “Biblical Christian.” This means I'm convinced the Christian Bible is the inerrant, authoritative revelation of a Sovereign, benevolent Creator to His human creatures. Daily, I strive to learn of & live by its precepts, recognizing this as the only valid response. I'm literally a slave of Christ Jesus (albeit sometimes rebellious!), and would lay down my life for Him Who did so for me! These are the presuppositions by which I comprehend myself and the world. Scripture is the lens through which I clearly perceive & assess *everything*.

Bottom line: I strive for genuinely Biblical living & seek a woman to marry who is like-minded. Hopefully, this profile will help you see that, while I do GREATLY enjoy the gift of fun, I'm serious about knowing its proper value. I enjoy & am deeply thankful for all good things...but don't "love" them or feel deprived without them. They're simply gracious gifts from God to be thoroughly enjoyed--but not idolized or tightly held. A meaningful life is about so much more than leisure & convenience!

Now for some fluff:

Some know me as "onetinysoapbox." (c; I'm "Afro-Italo-Mericano." (Sounds like a Starbucks drink, eh? But, really, I'm not much for all the hyphenations.) Born and raised in Minneapolis, I've lived in several US states, Germany & Hong Kong, and am now quite happily settled in the San Fernando Valley of LA. Friends would say I'm: a clown at times, pretty smart, a good listener and decent conversationalist. After meeting me, most people aren't all that surprised to find out I originally moved to LA to be an actor. However, that part of my life is long behind me. (Oh...and I "vote conservative, ride a motorbike, carry a knife & soon a gun." Scared, yet? (c:)

I'm also dad to one very special young boy with a fairly mild case of Aspergers Syndrome (a neurologic disorder). He's normal in most respects, but, there are some unique challenges...

What I'm looking for is a marriage-minded Christian gal who:

- has a true (Biblical) understanding of womanhood and strives for the standard
- has a perspective informed more by Scripture than anything else (experience, psychology, culture, etc.)
- is mature enough not to be afraid of the word "step-mom"
- is far more family-oriented than career-minded
- actually understands MODESTY & knows it's all about the Gospel (either conducive to it or a distraction from it)
- is health-conscious, valuing physical fitness as a stewardship, not for vanity's sake

Please carefully consider the above before sending your wink. (c: If the above deeply resonates with you, then there may be a connection worth having between us.

PS: Please forgive my bluntness on this particular, but: if you're divorced --and your past marriage(s) ended for reasons OTHER than adultery or spousal abandonment-- then I consider you unavailable to me. I can certainly explain this conviction in private communication. (In the meantime, please see Matthew 5:32 and 1 Corinthians 7:15.)

PPS: Listen, words are truly a blessing from our Creator! However, if your profile only has words --and no clear photos-- then I simply won't take an interest. It may sound harsh, but, hey: if we met at Trader Joe's, would you be hiding behind a grocery cart as we talked? (Naaah ...adults don't do that, do we? Just you be "all you," and let the fellas either appreciate or move along as they will.)

PPPS: If the only mention of Christ in your profile is under the multi-choice 'Faith' question, then, consider me "saddened" & "concerned"...but not "interested."

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Cycling, Inline skating, Walking / Hiking, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

(My interests are various.)

Favorite hot spots:

This list is still very small. Perhaps you'll help me enlarge it? (c:

Favorite things:

Why not contact me to find out?

Last read:

'Slave: The Hidden Truth About Your Identity in Christ' by John F. MacArthur. (Highly recommend it!)

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'1" (185cms)
5'4" (162cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Slender
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Bald
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
No
Want kids:
Definitely
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Black / African descent, White / Caucasian
Other

Dad's black (and Native American), mom's pure Italian.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other

"Biblical Christian" is the term I prefer. I'm convinced of the absolute inerrancy & authority of Scripture (with all that implies). My church heritage is that of the Reformation: Huss, Calvin, Luther, Knox (Spurgeon, Edwards).

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Bachelors degree
No preference

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