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53 year old man
Wichita, Kansas, United States

Seeking:
women 44-57
Within:
175 Miles of Wichita, Kansas, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
About average
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

It was a dark and stormy night..." Wait, that's not what I am supposed to write, is it? Seriously, research papers are easier than this (although this is easier than the initial email -see for yourself), but here goes: I am (reasonably) intelligent, witty, easy going, multitalented , multifaceted, and fun. My sense of humor is a trifle off-beat at times, but that and my love of music has kept me relatively sane (?) over all these years! I am usually shy when around people I have just met, but when I feel comfortable and open up, watch out! Nothing is set in stone and anything is open to discussion. I have learned to "adapt, improvise, and overcome" (Thanks Clint Eastwood) many hurdles in life -- some things just take a little more effort and determination!! I am a hopeless romantic and think it is more the person I am with rather than the actual activity that makes the difference. Not perfect, but always a work in progress. Some people think that chivalry is dead. I see it (and common sense and courtesy) as an endangered species and I am doing my best to preserve it, so expect the door to be opened for you. Exploring, travel, museums and learning new things everyday keep me happy. My schedule is very flexible and easily adaptable. Relocating near or far is always an option (would love to relocate to a Pacific paradise). I am more brain (and heart soul) than brawn so if you really want to get my heart racing, get my brain racing, too!! .

I am looking for a companion with some of the same interests and priorities that I have, but also with her own personality and enough differences to keep things interesting. 'Give and Take' is an important part of any relationship and we both win! I can compromise and hope that you will be willing to do the same. Perfection is not required (besides being boring), but the willingness to have fun and try along the way is. So, if your imagination has been piqued by anything you saw or read here, drop me a line. One never knows, might just be pretty glad you did!

One is limited in boxes to check here and life is not just about checking boxes and taking what that brings. Age, height, distance, etc are just factors that go into the entire equation --- NOT the sum answer. I prefer somebody with a bit of common sense and an open mind. Knows how and when to be a lady and when to be adventurous and try new things. Open minded to all the options the Universe has to explore. Look at the total picture as well as what is inside. Looking for My Best Friend ... is that you?

If you email me, you will receive the courtesy of a reply - it is only right. Nice to be extended the same courtesy. I usually ignore winks. Sorry. Reading some of the profiles here makes me feel like I am a kid back at the Amusement Park with a sign that says, "You must be this tall to ride this ride!"

Yes, I have plastic leg braces. Aren't they sexy?! They are a part of my life but they are not me. I won't climb a mountain or go backpacking with you, but I will be your biggest supporter. I don't wear the braces at home but, like an American Express Card, I don't leave home without them. I know my limitations and how to work with them. Afterall, I ran around the ER for years with them on.

Although it may seem counterintuitive you just might find this true in our unique universe that sometimes less is more. Which is remembered and loved more: the gift and what it represents or the fancy paper it was wrapped in that ends up in the trash?

I want my Lady that will grab my hand, spin me into her arms, and kiss me passionately for no other reason than "just because!"

Interests:
Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports
Sports & exercise:
Bowling, Cycling, Football, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I'll tell you later
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I love all animals. So intuitive and intelligent. I don't have any so I can pick up and go on a moments notice without worry. Dander, especially cat, and I have never learned to play well together. :(

Political views:
Middle of the Road
Sign:
Gemini
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

I find the simplest things bring the most pleasure. Don't need to spend a fortune to have fun. More about whom you are with rather than the activity (although enjoying the activity does help). Love History and learning about it.

Favorite hot spots:

Let's make some of our own!

Favorite things:

Raining -- snuggle in bed or the couch and watch a good movie (Hitchcock suspense or "older" movies). Prefer TV things that are semi-educational (History, Court, Science, etc). Museums. Constantly learning new things!

Last read:

An Agatha Christie book -- I like her writing. A couple of different New Age books. Calvin & Hobbes ...LMAO

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
3'1" (93cms) to 8'11" (271cms)
Body type:
About average
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Hazel
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Medical / Dental / Veterinary / Fitness
No preference

"Retired" a few years ago after working the ER for many years. I really miss that adrenaline rush of not knowing what was next! Life throws us change-up pitches to adapt to.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
No preference
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, Native American, Pacific Islander, White / Caucasian

Irish/English on my Mum's side. German on the other. I think there is also some Gypsy blood in me as I do like to travel and see things.

Faith:
Spiritual but not religious
No preference

Believe in God/Creator but not in the "one size fits all off the rack" dogmas. So many things to explore and learn. I would lean towards Buddhism with an open mind to everything in the universe.

Languages:
English, Other
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

Mostly School of Life -- experience beats book training any day although having the book facts does help if one has the common sense to use them. Have several diplomas and certificates but all they do nowadays is collect dust!

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