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44 year old man
Menlo Park, California, United States

Seeking:
women 35-48
Within:
10 Miles of Menlo Park, California, United States
Relationship:
Never Married
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

I'm (I'd like to think, anyway) a good guy; a bit or maybe a lot smart alecky; a little bookish; though I'll occasionally do this boxing class; and I clean up quite nicely. from my photos you can tell I do a pretty good deadpan; though I've been known smile on camera. while neither prig nor scold, I've got a solid moral compass.

though I do have a car, I've always commuted by bike or hoofed it in LA. I've got a good job at a nonprofit. I'm clear on who I am and what I want. I'm not all that into watching sports. I have a prius (again with the car); it was a personal goal. my mom's side of the family are Scots and if coaxed sufficiently I can pull off a pretty solid glaswegian. I'm really into the semicolon. I can be a little intense and so I'll half-assedly meditate and work the rest of it out at the gym. I do like my brain engaged, but all cerebral is a bit dry.

some traits:

1. I'm not a dichotomy.
2. I promise to take an interest in your interests.
3. if you're really 41, I'm not the kind of guy that needs to see "39" in your profile.
4. b/t college and law school, I spent 3 years as a community organizer.
5. I always say "please" and "thank you"---but with an edge.
6. I grew up in louisiana.
7. I still read comic books, but your friends need never know.
8. I can promise high quality banter.

I don't have a type. more than anything else, though, I'm looking for sense of humor, smarts, and intellectual curiosity. And pluck---a little pluck goes a long way. Plus---women are generally a lot better than guys at recognizing their own emotional needs, being able to articulate them, and knowing how to get them met healthily---I've got the basics of that down and am looking for someone pretty much there herself. In other words, I want what most humans want: someone sweet and funny, who's kind, even-keeled, and who it just feels right to be around.

it'd also be nice to share some traits/interests. and it'd be cool to find something equal parts cole porter sophistication and brill building longing.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Hobbies and crafts, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
Pet Essay:

I've made my peace with cats and now count some of them among my best friends.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Scorpio
College:
Rutgers, The State University of New Jersey, New Brunswick, Piscataway, NJ
For fun:

on Wed. nights I sit in with a bar band in Hollywood. I take photos avidly: here in LA. but I usually take one trip back South every year--I still have family friends there. I literally enjoyed Graceland non-ironically.

Favorite hot spots:

the standard cultural LA destinations . . classic hotel bars are kinda cool. I'll happily go to the new beverly or the egyptian. I have lived in and still love Portland, OR; friends there too. Istanbul is next on the trip list

Favorite things:

see photography/bar band above: I love doing both. I usually phase through different types of music. last 2 years have been free jazz, debussy, scott walker, lee hazlewood, capt. beefheart, albert king. saw the monkees at the greek in Nov.

Last read:

I really do like to read, but over the last 9 months I've punked out on faulkner's absalom, absalom (though I did finish the sound and the fury), woolf's to the lighthouse, and I'm stalled on james's the american. but, boy, do I love chekov.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'7" (170cms)
5'0" (152cms) to 5'11" (180cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Curvy, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
Black, Blue, Brown, Grey, Green, Hazel
Hair:
Dark blonde
Auburn / Red, Black, Light brown, Dark brown, Blonde, Salt and pepper, Silver, Dark blonde, Grey, Platinum
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Social Drinker
Occupation:
Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist
Political / Govt / Civil Service / Military, Student, Education / Teacher / Professor, Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering, Nonprofit / Volunteer / Activist, Architecture / Interior design

I'm a fundraiser for a local nonprofit.

Income:
I'll tell you later
No preference
Relationship:
Never Married
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Currently Separated, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
Not sure
Not sure, Probably not, No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Latino / Hispanic, Middle Eastern, Native American, White / Caucasian

more precisely, my family is Jewish and Scottish

Faith:
Atheist
Agnostic, Atheist, Buddhist / Taoist, Hindu, Jewish, Muslim / Islam, Spiritual but not religious

Atheist, with an apparently unshakable strain of Calvinism

Languages:
English
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

law school at GW in DC. I miss the Metro.

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