First, I have to vent about something that is driving me crazy!
This is a dating site, not a travel site. When browsing this service, people want to know what you look like, not what a sunset looks like, or a pony, or a Caribbean beach. That stuff is great for later but filling up your profile with photos of pets and scenery is about as interesting as talking about your ex. Nuff said? Good. If you still have any interest left...here's the stuff about me.
Let's see, talking about myself is so hard for me, that's why I practice all the time! Seriously, I think that if you're not enjoying what you're doing, or can't laugh at it, then you need to get help. I have no time for overly serious or uptight people. Life is too short. I'm obviously a guy who likes to kid around a lot. I can't help it.
I enjoy my work (usually). I'm an eye doc who teaches at a medical university (hey, what the hell, it beats my days as a pole dancer...oops, did I say that out loud?). I like people (in limited doses) and am having a pretty good time in life.
A few years ago I became interested in video and filmmaking and now I really enjoy shooting and editing documentaries when I have the time. I've even been paid for a few!
I like exercise (I could watch it for hours!...kidding), good food, good art, good humor, nature, relaxation, theater and music, and learning new things. I'm a bit of a clown but I can really enjoy genuine, unforced romance. I also love the art of conversation.
I think if you claim that appearance is unimportant, then you're lying or in denial. Of course I seek someone who I find attractive. In fact, from now on, I don't want to get involved with someone romantically unless they can make my heart speed up (that doesn't necessarily mean the model type, there is an enormous variety of looks, shapes and sizes that I find attractive). I want someone who's genuine, smart, sweet, without a bunch of emotional issues and who doesn't play all the dating games and rules.
Is that so wrooong?!
There is one potentially negative requirement I have to put out there just to save us all time and effort.
1) I don't tend to be attracted to women older than me so you may want to pass on me if you are.
2) It's really important to me to work out regularly and stay in good athletic shape. If you're heavy set, a few extra pounds or
otherwise not conscientious about fitness then chances are I won't be interested. Sorry but it's best to get ot out there early.
