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I am 45 years old, I have two children, one (my daughter) is married and the other (my son) is 18. I am divorced and share custody of my ...

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47 year old man
Mililani, Hawaii, United States

Seeking:
women 30-50
Within:
300 Miles of Mililani, Hawaii, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

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I am 45 years old, I have two children, one (my daughter) is married and the other (my son) is 18. I am divorced and share custody of my son. I have a secure, permanent federal job (well, historically these have been secure. I am very active and love being outdoors, especially surfing and time at the beach. I am looking for someone to start a relationship with, friendship first is OK. Must be able to accept my children . They are amazing kids, so it will be easy. I currently live in Mililani, and plan to make Hawaii my permanent home or at least return to Hawaii. I have traveled the world extensively and would love to find someone to travel with again. Lately, my primary focus in life has been my children, they are getting older and more independent, so I am looking at developing friendships and hopefully a long term relationship.
I travel from time to time for work. Annually, I travel to Mainland Japan, Okinawa, Guam, and Alaska at least once. I travel to South Korea at least twice a year. I have been in Hawaii for 6 years, and do not miss the mainland yet. When I do leave, I can't wait to return. I have lived on the west coast, east coast and no coast :(, there is no place like Hawaii. I have traveled to more than 25 countries, but I feel fortunate to live here. It is a very special, healthy, balancing place.
I am looking for someone that is ready to settle down from a relationship perspective, not a lifestyle perspective. I believe you are as old or as young as you feel and allow yourself to be. I have friends my age that have mentally slowed down their lifestyles and their attitudes and bodies quickly followed. I like to stay active and fit, and would like to find someone that is interested in doing the same. I exercise 4-5 times a week, I am not a gym rat but spend more time exercising if I have the free time. I am completely open to a partner with or without children. I love children, mine are my pride and joy and I know there are many single mothers/co-parents out there that feel the same way.
I am equally content staying in or being out socially. I don't diet, and I enjoy drinks in the right company and in moderation. I don't go clubbing, but I will go out to a club, pub, or bar from time to time to meet friends, special occasions, office happy hours, etc.

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Video games, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Skiing, Swimming, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I'll tell you later
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Gemini
College:
University of Phoenix, Phoenix, AZ
For fun:

Surf, spend time with friends and family, surf, exercise (weight lifting and cardio), Hike, read, travel, anything that involves my children. speniding time at the beach. I would like to start paddling (SUP) and kayaking or canoeing. Surf :)

Favorite hot spots:

Favorite places traveled to: Prague, Rome, Costa Rica, Yucatan Peninsula, Paris, Venice, Tokyo, Okinawa, S. Korea, Alaska's inside passage, Barcelona, Berlin, Corfu-Greece, the Pacific Northwest, anywhere in California, and Colorado. All of Hawaii.

Favorite things:

Any kind of music. I enjoy everything from Frank Sinatra to Kid Rock. Love island jams and have always been a fan of reggae. My kids expose me to a lot of second hand hip hop. love all foods, enjoy eating out. I need the ocean, it balances me.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
4'5" (134cms) to 5'9" (175cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Black
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado, Yes, but trying to quit
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Regularly, Moderately
Occupation:
Technical / Science / Computers / Engineering
No preference

I am a Department of Defense Civilian. Work as a Civilian IT Specialist for the Army.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
Less Than $25,000, $25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
No preference
Have kids:
Yes, they sometimes live at home (1)
Yes, and they sometimes live at home, No, Yes, and they live away from home, Yes, and they live at home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
Latino / Hispanic
No preference

Born and raised in California, lived in Europe for three years, and traveled extensively.

Faith:
Other
Spiritual but not religious

Open to any religions, believe spirituality and religion are personal paths, that do not require church attendance or rigid structure.

Languages:
English, German, Spanish
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
No preference

Master of Science in Information Technology

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