I try not to let a lot bother me in life and feel like you make your own destiny. I grew up in the Chicago suburbs, but have basically lived in Colorado for the past 9 years. I feel like the "chill" of the general personalities in Colorado has been infused in my body (sidenote: I hate the word "chill" but it's really the best word for this situation). I moved to NYC just over a year ago. Since my first visit I knew I wanted to live here, but I also know the lifestyle I want to live. I made a conscious decision to establish my career before moving. That worked quite well! I am a computer nerd-security professional.
I am looking for someone who is intelligent, thinks highly of themselves, comfortable in their own shoes and attractive. That combination seems to be very hard to come by in NYC, however I haven't given up.
I really enjoy fashion, dressing well, computers, technology and work out regularly (typically gym, swim, run, cycle). I have a fantastic group of friends and enjoy being out and around then. I do have a very good work-fun balance and my profession will always trump the fun. Although, now that I think about it, work is actually fun for me. I think the combination of my life interests is very unique and speaks to my personality.
I am at a point in my life where I am completely comfortable with who I am, even though it may not fit a set of norms. I am looking for someone to connect and just be happy with.