City of "Brotherly Love"...are ya kiddin' ?! haha...WOW what a culture shock moving here! Anyway, I am in search of someone who is (dare to dream ;P)...ok the "N" word- NICE and GENUINE to spend time with and explore the city.
Those who are not interested in someone who has been married before, I understand but all I can say is that every situation IS different I gave of myself completely and tried all I could to make things work. MEN WITH CHILDREN please note- I adore children and HAVE made attempts to date men with them. As a result, I've dealt with some unfortunate "baby's mamma drama" and certainly did not enjoy that aspect. Who needs that extra stressor in a new relationship? HOWEVER, if you have a functional relationship with your child's mother I would certainly give the benefit of my eternal optimism and a chance while hoping for the best.
Now that thats out of the way...I have a trusting, compassionate, and generous nature (to a fault at time but thats who I am). I LOVE to laugh and I do smile about 98% of the time. I'm very outgoing and you'll never have to worry about having to be glued to my side during a social event and meeting new people I like to think I can hoId my own and enjoy talking to people in all walks of life. I try to be optomistic even when its difficult to muster and give those who I care for my all including my patients.
Wow, I had no idea this would this difficult-sorry, I digress. I am at the stage in my life where honesty and integrity mean everything. I refuse to play games there are certainly plenty of venues available for that (the infamous bar scene everyone is claiming to be so sick of). I'm pretty much an open book and I can't lie to save my life which happened to work out well for my parents! ;P. I certainly don't want to jump into an instant commitment but who doesn't look for that amazing chemistry and the ease of comfortable silences of a true partner. I am very understanding and expect the same from those important to me. I believe that in all levels of relationships people should enhance and learn from each other.
I admire somone with a strong work ethic but knows how to balance having a personal life as well. If you want to spend time with someone...you will make the time as we all know. Attraction for me is based on chemistry, honesty, sense of humor, generosity of spirit, and morals they are what do it for me!