I'm seriously about to give up on this match thing. Are there no gentleman out there anymore???? If so, where are you hiding???
I guess the first thing you should know about me is I don't have a shy bone in my body and I am very outspoken. I am new to the area (very new) and I am looking to meet new people and see where that goes but I am in no hurry. I am independent and strong but I have a huge heart. Sometimes that has put me in a position of being taken advantage by some, but I wouldn't want to be any other way...I've just gotten a little smarter about things instead of bitter.
If you were to take me somewhere and I was in a room of people I didn't know and you walked off, by the time you came back I would be talking to someone. I am very outgoing which is not the same as being a huge flirt, although sometimes people get the two confused, so if you are a very jealous person then I am not the one for you. I have more male friends than female but most of them are gay. I also have a gay son (who is grown and just moved to So. Cal) and a gay sister, and I also do a lot of volunteer work in the gay community. So if you do not feel like we all deserve to have the same rights and be treated the same way then we wouldn't even be friends. I respect everyones right to believe what you want but I only surround myself with people who value everyone the same.
I want to find a someone that is strong and can stand their ground with me but I also want them to be compassionate and kind hearted. Because I am a strong woman I need a strong person, but don't get that confused with wanting a jerk. I treat people with respect and won't settle for anything less in return. I am a believer that we teach people how to treat us by how we allow them to act towards us, I won't be disrespected and stick around. I want someone who can laugh at themselves and they don't take themselves too serious. I am extremely playful and love to laugh. I want someone who has played all the games and realizes what they want and what is important. I am a grown ass woman and I am looking for a grown ass man.
I also have several tattoos. I am not covered in them, I have them in places that can be covered but I do have them. My daughter lives with me full time and I recently moved her to Fishers from Nashville, TN (but I am originally from So. Cal) so that she could be closer to her Dad and his family. We all get along well and she is thrilled to have us both around and it has given me a chance to have a lil more free time. I could go on but I guess I should leave some things for you to find out about me :)
Disclaimer: After a week on here I feel I should add this, I am not looking for a quick hook-up and I don't find it flattering at all when you make sexual remarks directly or implying things to me without knowing me. If I wanted that then I would just go to a bar. So telling me I am pretty is a compliment, asking me when I am going to use my tongue on you or anything like that is not going to get you anywhere but blocked and if you don't have a pic then I won't respond. Also, I am not looking for a hook up. I will not have a sexual relationship with you unless I am in a committed relationship with the person and so if you are looking for someone who is going to have sex with you on a first, second or third date then I am not the one for you.
