PLEASE READ!! First, let me say, I would like to apologize for my lack of party pics with friends and gratuitous bikini in the mirror shots. Seriously, I 'm here for all the right reasons. I'm hoping to find a long-lasting, meaningful relationship. Meeting people and making friends are great--however, I can do that in everyday life. So, no offense, if you're looking for a casual friendship, I respect that, however I'm not a match for you. I respect your intentions and I truly wish you well.
Although I'm divorced, I still believe in the institution of marriage. I loved being married and sharing my passions, life, dreams, and goals regarding family and futures. I maintain a great relationship with my ex as we chose to leave drama in the past. Unfortunately, the fairy tale ending wasn't meant to be that time around---but I believe my ending is still being written. As a successful woman, I'm cautious, but not fearful of the second chance. :)
I lead a fairly healthy lifestyle. I work out 3-4 times per week (I prefer 4, but sometimes life calls)...so not a gym rat, but just enough. :) I try to make healthy eating choices but love to try new restaurants!! Not going to lie, I love a great slice of pizza...of course, if it's from NYC, it probably can't be beat.
I have 3 stunning, smart, funny, equally creative kids, that remind me life is short.! By the way, does anyone here say, "I have children and they're just okay?"
About you:
Without trying to sound cliche..
A man that loves his family, has a positive attitude, and an open mind. I'm looking for someone that likes to smile, laugh, travel, and challenge me at the same time. I respect a man with his own life, set of friends, etc, and can come back to me, eager to share his experiences. I'm athletic..but I love to get dressed up sometimes, and look amazing for my date...duh, who doesn't? I'm pretty low maintenance, although I've been told looks can be deceiving. The ideal guy loves to go with me to baseball games, basketball games, concerts, clubs for dancing every once in a while, a smooth jazz bar, Inman Park on a beautiful day,a romantic dinner that lingers for hours over great conversation, or quiet night at home...or something in between. My family and friends are incredibly important to me. I'm a HUGE KU (not to be confused with UK) basketball fan and try to get to Lawrence each year to catch a game at Allen Field House. My friends would say I'm unexpectedly funny, creative, the first to give up something of my own to make someone else comfortable or successful, and that I love a good laugh. Last, I own my own home and car. I say this because I would expect the same from a man in his upper 30's and beyond...or at the ability to do so. If you're coming out of a marriage that devastated you financially, perhaps dating shouldn't be on your radar. I hope that doesn't come off wrong, however, I know that sort of drama can take sime time to get through...not to mention a lot if time and focus on yourself. So, not judging, but experience has taught me a thing or two. Timing is everything, and I'm hopeful to find someone at the same place in life that I am. If you can keep up, I'd love to hear from you.
PS, I really didn't want to fill in a salary requirement. It seemed shallow. What I care most about is that you are passionate about what you do and take pride in your profession. Salary does not equate happiness or success. As for age, there haven't been exceptions, and I'd like to keep my search to under the age of 47. If for no other reason than to have relatable experiences.
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