Wouldnt it be wonderful to find your match on this venue ? You know time is of the essence -but we are in no rush, no pressure please! - How great to meet someone that "gets you" ? - the ying with the yang - A nice place to have peace of mind - and have fun - know of where you've been, where you are now, and where you want to be from here. You've learned your lessons well and are happy - have good character and ethics, mutual respect, trust, and well lets use this over used word - integrity! - Are you smart, stimulating, witty, confident, stylish, sexy too - Possess that genuine heart and soul - love to laugh, thoughtful, caring and kind. I am visual also, but do know that beauty is skin deep. Are you willing to invest in a relationship of friendship and have it develop in to what works best for both of us, and hopefully a friendship of a lifetime. I am not looking to be rescued, nor do I care to rescue anyone. I would like an equal; a partner, its so nice to contribute to each others lives. I would love to fall in love again but you cant force that to happen - No expectations, except, to expect to be treated and treat someone with kindness, respect, honesty ,trust!! Well then, maybe we are too short, too tall, too young, too old, too quiet, too loud, are you frugal, frivolous, you don't drink, or you drink too much, dont work, work too much - married too many times - never married - left brain, right brain, these are details that do matter - but as long as you are in the know and not fooling yourself or person you so say care to fool around with - lol - Lest not forget, which or whatever our past, ideally, we have handled that baggage and we are ready to indulge in this all fun stuff again! - I am a native New Yorker and feel truly blessed to be living on the West Coast.- I have a "bi-coastal" attitude - not too hard and not too soft - I take whatever is dealt me, and survive all that is dealt - I am blessed with good looks, great genes, true friends and a loving family- I prefer no BS- no drama, no issues, absolutely no obsessions, addictions, and nor hidden agendas - Please respond only if you are truly divorced, live within 50 miles and do not have a co-dependency with any of your ex-wives - ex girlfriends, or your children! - Kindly respond only if you have photos - Best wishes and Thank you. :-)