Most important is chemistry, ability to laugh and be yourself. Trust is huge, and putting the other person as a priority, not just what's left over. I'm a little cautious at first, but if you earn my trust I'll stand by you no matter what. I'm sensitive but strong, been through ton and have a bigger perspective on life than most my age. What I want most is someone who after a full day, I can curl up on the couch with, watch a movie or just talk.
I hope to end up with someone motivated and driven, but who can turn that off and be with the family and relax. Someone who knows career is important, but not the most important.