Ideally, I'd like someone pretty and in shape, who is passionate, interesting, adventurous, fun, romantic, sexy. She must be someone with high integrity and high standards who appreciates a nice guy who does not look his age. Not a game player/chaser, simply looking for the right connection.
Ah, if finding the right person were simple...
The photos are mostly recent (most August, 2010, some in 2011).
Most photos were Photoshopped for a website project, so let's be frank, I don't look that good in real life. Expect an incredible letdown! Kidding.
I’d like to do my best to save both of us time, so I’m finally putting more thought and detail into what I want. My ideal match should be more attracted to substance over flash. Also, if the woman prefers what I call the “cool factor” over a “nice guy”, then she should move on to the next guy. I do not have a gauge as to how long to wait until I call you back as I consider it the not-so-compelling part of the game. Furthermore, if I call you and you don't return the call, I won't chase by calling another time, assuming you've either moved on or the potential "us" was not a priority for you. And, If your search revolves around the concept of “any club that will have me is not worth joining”, we’re simply not right for each other.
I was born and raised in South Carolina, but have now lived in California more than half my life. I do still have that Southern gentleman stuff going on, but I’m not sure how much it’s appreciated in the OC. I’m calm and gentle, but yet I’m no pushover.
I want to give my entire heart to the right woman as long as she can do the same. I do better with a woman who does not constantly drive with the brakes on, and someone who naturally lets her soft, vulnerable, sensual side be more dominant than her business side. I want to be adored and I will adore you. I believe true, sustaining love is ignited by a passionate freefall.
On the other side of that coin, emotional high maintenance isn’t attractive to me. No drama, please. In fact, any high maintenance is not desirable. I want substance over superficiality.
I want someone who’s happy inside. Only you can make you happy. Of course, I will do my best to make you happier, this distinction being important.
When someone takes the time to look inside of me, they will find intensity, silliness, passion, sensual intimacy, creativity, food, film, music, adventure, family and hopefully a powerful friendship with the woman I can love and adore, all part of this interesting expedition through the kingdom of romance.