If I dont open my mouth right away, I come across as shy, earnest and sweet..once I have fully "warmed up", and open my mouth, people will still comment how sweet I am.. but realize what a goofy smart ass I can be..I am a hard core Pisces and HSP a temperament not all men or women know how to handle. Personally I think Im one of the raddest people I know. I know exactly what Im looking for and what Im attracted to. Respond if you are dark haired and dark eyed, a gentleman, not shy, smooth but not slick, intellectual, you can laugh at yourself, you don't equate sensitive girls with the phrase "drama queen" you don't take life or yourself too seriously... except for the obvious areas of life. You like goofy, girlish women
Your friends consider you an articulate, witty and funny guy who is looking for a funny, smart, direct, tenderhearted girl, and you are an allround conversationalist... i.e you can talk about more than just you... (I prefer men who think outside the box, are creative and worldly, even a little off center, extroverted, who can talk about ideas, people, places, culture... you can impress me if you know something about psychology, sociology, history, nutrition and pop culture in general!)
Somebody who is not afraid of falling in love if all systems are go... take that!
THE SIX THINGS I COULD NEVER DO WITHOUT:
-humor (i.e witticisms, sarcasm, silliness, goofiness, playfulness, teasing, verbal sparring)
-quality, in depth conversation
-connection to people and in relationships
-physical affection, sexuality
-true love, and music
I SPEND A LOT OF TIME THINKING ABOUT:
what is right and wrong, what motivates people..tryna interpret their actions...wondering how good a person, employee, friend, g.f,
lover, daughter, etc. I am... men, women, sexuality, love, my girlfriends, my family, improving my physical appearance..
THE MOST PRIVATE THING I'M WILLING TO ADMIT:
I'm sensitive and empathetic !
"I want a perfect body, I want a perfect soul"..;)
And also, I don't have a car right now. But more than willing to use my nearby Amtrak station, should I meet a bay area gentleman
that tickles my fancy.
Considering possibly moving to S.F Bay Area/Santa Rosa as the job market in my area is very disappointing and limiting.
One more thing you should know:
I am not gonna be your hiking or fishing buddy. I work out to look good naked, not cuz I'm sporty spice ;)
YOU SHOULD MESSAGE ME IF:
You are dark haired and dark eyed, sophisticated, not shy, smooth but not slick, you can laugh at yourself and your quirks and
flaws, don't take life too seriously... except for the obvious areas of life where it's absolutely necessary. You think a little bit weird
is alotta cool. You like to read. You don't think sweetness and sometimes naiivete= weak
Your friends consider you a funny person..and you're looking for a funny, smart, direct, tenderhearted girl, and you are an allround
conversationalist... i.e you are curious about what you don't know and the lives of people around you... (I prefer people who think
outside the box, are creative and worldly, who can talk about ideas, people, places, culture... you can impress me if you are
interested in psychology, sociology, history, alternative health)