I'm an educated, pretty, sexy, confident woman. I work too hard and play not nearly enough....currently seeking some serious fun....I have a sunny disposition, albeit a bit nerdy and a lot goofy. My philosophy on life is, " there isn't anything worthwhile that comes easily"...and I've learned to thrive on life's challenges. Another thing I've learned is that the sum of a person's character isn't what they have accomplished in life, it's the obstacles they've had to overcome to achieve what they have, which makes them what they are today......THAT shows what a person is really made of....I'm searching out a similar outlook in life with an interesting counterpart; someone that has maybe fallen down a bit, but has picked themselves up and made their life better as a result....Let's explore the lighter side of life together! Make me laugh! I double dog dare you! We can do almost anything and make it fun and memorable if you're my kind of guy....every experience is a chance to learn, have fun, and laugh a whole lot at the memories we make, (if you've never read 'the big o meets the missing piece', you should google it), its by Shel Silverstein....there's a link I can't post but the book is online, that pretty much sums me up.....Here's to finding someone to be my sexy, fun, realistic, cuddly bum (cute tush) here in Tulsa! cheers....K