I have to say I don't know what I'm really looking for. I thought I was still searching for mr. right, if he really ever existed, but after a while you get tired of the search. I guess I would have to say I'm just looking for good, decent people to chat with and make new friends. Everyone seems to want something right off the bat, like a boyfriend or sex bud. If thats you then you're not the one for me. You can find someone like that at the local gay bar or bath house. The hardest part when meeting someone new is just plain talking and finding common interests. But I find its always easier when you're just yourself and let all the fears and nervousness go. As for me I would have to say I'm a decent, loyal, masculine type of guy. I'm more into a good baseball or football game than I'm in to the latest Madonna hit or new Broadway showtune or play, though I do like the latter two but its not what I live for. So, if you're interested in chatting and getting to know other people or developing new friendships hit me up. I live in the southwest suburbs of Chicago. Thanks.