I am a romantic at heart. I'm not the first to go to the movies with a date, as it'd be a shame to sit there and stare at a screen for a couple of hours when we could be chatting and getting acquainted with each other. I need mental stimulation - I crave it!
and what kind of woman do I want to spend my non-film-watching time talking to? One who knows what she wants and who has the confidence to go about it in a moderate way. Someone who keeps a good balance between her own time and her time with me.