First, before I introduce myself.....If your profile says you ar 30 and your profile says you are looking for ANYTHING 18 ......thats disgusting and go seek some therapy. I am looking for a MAN who is looking for a WOMAN not a little girl who is still finding themselves. That being said, Helloooo!!! My name is monica.. I have a 9 year old son. He is amazing and having a child wasnt a planned thing in my life at 19 but it is the best thing that has ever happened to me. :) I live a pretty nice, relaxing, stress-free life and Im waiting for a spark, good conversation will lead to meeting with me. send me a wink if you would like to chat. :) I need a man who really knows who he is and what he wants. I waited to date because I was enjoying time alone and really figuring out who I am and what I want. Went to school 2 times. did the whole career thing....and now im a bartender. lol. I actually just enjoy working 4 days and having 3 days off to enjoy and spend quality time with friends and my family. My son deserves the best and His father and I both give him everything and he appreciates it. I am ready to let someone in and spedn qaulity time with. I miss all that good stuff. :)