My ideal match would already have children. Enjoy the beach, watching movies and doesn't enjoy night clubs but is open to all types of music except for vulgar rap. He would speak his mind in a kind but diplomatic way and be considerate of his partners feelings and choose his words carefully bc they can't be taken back. I would enjoy the company of someone who LOVES to travel and isn't afraid to fly. Someone who is smart but has common sence and can make fun of himself as easily as others. Someone whose not afraid to try something new even if they fail rather than to never have tried for fear of failing. Someone who enjoys the holidays as much as I do and isn't unwilling to compromise on visiting each family rather than just setting for one or the other. I have to laugh every day and need someone who can make me laugh and can laugh at themselves daily. Someone who is grateful for the life they have and not always searching or envious of a life the can't obtain unless they work hard to get it. Someone who is goal oriented. Enjoys working out but lounging as well. Someone who is clean, neat and organized but doesn't have furniture you can just look at. A free spirit.