I am looking for friendship and not a person who jumps into anything too quickly. My interests are very diversified. I am rewriting this, so if you read this yesterday and wonder why it is different, my neighbor put me on LOL!!! She also had too much wine when she was doing it! My feelings of meeting people online are very guarded. That being said I will leave this up and see where it leads. If you are someone who puts 30 or 35 for your minimum age I am probably not for you. I believe in instinct. You know right off the bat if you are compatible, however it is not always 2 sided. Who knows why?? I love gardening, and just about anything outdoors. However I have no problem dressing up for the country club. If you are a player, please skip me as it doesn't take long to figure that out. People should be truthful with each other: there is no reason for games. If I don't respond it is because I am not good with checking this site so please don't think me rude. Recently, I took myself off the site but decided maybe I shouldn't have. My son will be graduating next year and he is the center of my world. I spent quite a bit of time with what I saw as the perfect couple so it made me miss having a partner: someone to trust and complete each other. My match will be someone who likes that I can be a business woman or domestic. That's my story and I'm sticking to it!