I believe in real, genuine connections with people and anything short of that is a waste of my time. I'm not into game playing, posing or posturing and it doesn't take me an hour to get ready to go out. I'm interested in meeting people who are serious and live in Southern California. I'm NOT interested in having a relationship in cyberspace through emails and notes. I'm much better in person. I have lots of friends, a good sense of humor and I like to keep fit. I hike and play ice hockey. I like to travel, go wine tasting and watch movies. I'd like to meet a woman who knows what she wants and is not shy about letting me know. Must have a good sense of humor and know who they are. Someone who's active and takes care of themselves. Someone who's comfortable in jeans and a t-shirt, but can rock it in heels and a dress. Someone who makes me want to be a better man.