In an effort to stop the insanity, I am just going to come out and say it: online dating clearly isn't for me. By the time you read this, my membership will likely have run out, but I would really like to leave you with a closing thought: Loneliness is so much worse if you find yourself lonely in a relationship. So many of you men are willing to settle for a lot of things that don't necessarily fit with what you're looking for. You should stop doing that, and wait for your perfect match. She's out there, buddy.....I promise you that. But when you find her, do not send her a boring message that doesn't showcase your original personality.....take a chance.....be aggressive....send her a message that will put you on her radar. Do not fill your profile with words about how loyal, hard working, and faithful you are.....write something that couldn't have come from anyone but you. Let your personality resonate, and the woman of your dreams could be in your bed by next week!!! Good luck, boys.