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38 year old woman
Indianapolis, Indiana, United States

Seeking:
men 32-46
Within:
60 Miles of Carmel, Indiana, United States
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3+)
Want kids:
Not sure
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

Looking for friendship first (more, even hoping for marriage, later w just the one for me, which takes some describing - please don't read more into what i'm saying here - simply, i want forever to be as smooth as possible, and i'd rather be alone than be in a less than great relationship).

Sticking w my ideals:

1) faith in common (Christian, more about the relationship and grace than the title and living by law/I'm nondenominational);

2) age range (32-46, pretty set on this reasonable range); and

3) stability and children (stability in general is a must, but, specifically, either no children of ur own or a crazy-stable situation with children). I'm a mother of four - but I make time for dating, I promise - I believe in at least weekly dates for a relationship to thrive! Mine r the best children ever (ages 4-6-9-10). EVERYONE who meets or cares for any one or all of them claims the same (my point is that I have the least amount of drama anyone could have w children, despite numbers)! :) Mine r well behaved/disciplined. For a man who wants children in his life and has a heart for being a father (figure), mine r assets in dating. My children r a priority, but I wld strive for my next marriage (if it happens) to b healthfully intertwined as a priority w my children. Healthy marriages spawn healthy family dynamics...

let me know if u think we may really fit well. I don't want to waste anyone's time, not do I want my time wasted.

I like to meet face-to-face earlier so I know ur real and not invest much time e-chatting beforehand. :)

chemistry/presence and interests in common ARE important in dating, but i'm looking for the whole (not perfect; i'm not either) package just for me.

About me: I think I'm a blend of many traits (mostly balanced, tho I am female...). ;) serious but fun. :) i'm an improver - myself and things around me. Striving to live more simply. :) I'm fairly extroverted but in the middle. The longer I live, the more I am becoming a foodie (a "health foodie" - want to enjoy this together). i enjoy "good" food and its natural flavors, ethnic foods, fresh...anything. I love words/language (english and german and always up for learning a little something from other languages!) in general, good grammar (specifically english...ha!), learning. i love good humor - laughing is medicine!

interested in conversation that's comfortable, deeper, sometimes spiritual. I like discussing books read. I like good, clear communication both ways: I can nearly always talk (though most say I don't do so in excess), but I don't want to always be the only one. medium-strong interest in fitness and health in general. want to share it! i love gym workouts, biking, and doing other sports casually; recently tried and liked the physical effects of yoga (slowed me down...I'm a busy-minded girl!) and wanting to learn swim strokes. I grew up playing soccer and softball and have enjoyed tennis as an adult.

Education/career - I have plenty of formal education, though I respect people who self-educate. I am seeking direction as to how to utilize best all of who I am for my future work life. Working now to prepare to dig in w career (or more school?!) in a year or so (all kids will b in school full time).

About responding: before, I have tried to respond to every person who emailed me, but if I think we r not matches, now I don't always take time to respond unless I feel compelled. I don't mean it rudely, but online dating takes time enough as it is. Thanks for not taking it personally; I don't when u do the same. :). I wld not want to settle and wld not want to b in a relationship w a man who feels he has settled by choosing me. Hope the best for each of us!

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Gardening/Landscaping, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Exploring new areas, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Cycling, Skiing, Soccer, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise
Exercise habits:
I exercise 3-4 times per week
Pets:
I have Dogs
Pet Essay:

match assumes if you have ONE dog, you have dogS - i have one. :) i do have four kids, who are kind of like more dogs... they do bark, scratch, lap up water, and sometimes stink (but get baths). ha, ha... :)

Political views:
Conservative
Sign:
I don't believe in astrology
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

nature/hiking, anything outside, pool/swimming/beach, casual biking, landscape (installing, enjoying, just seeing interesting/good design), sports (casually), eating/going out, traveling, CONVERSATION! (in no particular order) :)

Favorite hot spots:

edisto island, sc; switzerland, anyplace with good friends and conversation

Favorite things:

MANY. quiet outside after a snow, spicy mustard, sushi and vietnamese food (all GOOD food), dark chocolate, spiritual insights and personal growth. trying new things (helps me find new favorites).

Last read:

always working on one now with my small group. :) additionally and most recently, i've been reading chunks of Abba's Child by Brennan Manning. So good. THAT is how i think...if you know the book or the author, you know how i see my faith.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'4" (162cms)
5'7" (170cms) to 6'2" (187cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, About average, Athletic and toned, Stocky
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way, Cigar aficionado
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker, Moderately
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

stay-at-home mommy right now (living on money saved) - thinking on career in the next year or two (to be either in school or working when all my kiddos are in full-time school).

Income:
I'll tell you later
$25,001 to $35,000, $35,001 to $50,000, $50,001 to $75,000, $75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Widow / Widower
Never Married, Widow / Widower
Have kids:
Yes, they live at home (3+)
No
Want kids:
Not sure
Definitely, Someday, Not sure, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference

a lot of people try to guess what my ethnicity/background is! i'm an american girl, though my roots are german-hillbilly-irish-native-american-indian.

Faith:
Christian / Protestant
Christian / Protestant, Christian / Other

it's quite important to me. if we don't have this in common, it's a deal breaker. i am constantly learning how my faith looks (how i live it and think about it). want to share in this kind of thinking and living!

Languages:
English, German
English
Education:
Graduate degree
Associates degree, Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

i speak only a tad german. took it all through high school, but i DO still think and speak bits here and there and have been told i was understandable - crazy! fun!

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