I'm looking for what everyone is looking for. Someone to click with. That shares the same interests or at least entertain the idea of exploring what the other may be interested in. Looking out for each other and our loved ones. No drama and if it should occur, handling it in a civilized manner where we put ourselves in the others shoes. I believe God wouldn't have created a world involving cohabitation if, we were meant to be alone in life. I am not needy, in fact, I thrive off of being needed and being able to provide happiness. Culturally, I've been groomed to give which makes it hard to receive. I dont expect anything in return for what I do. However, that doesn't mean I'll accept any disrespect or be pursued for anything material or superficial. I know everyone says this but, I am looking for my best friend. So cliche but, it's the truth.
I had to update my profile as a result of the most unbelievalbe and disgusting encounter I've had on this site thus far. PLEASE do not insult my intelligence and send me messages throwing in "beach house" and/or other passive yet OBVIOUS indications of one's wealth. That matters NOTHING to me. IF anything, it's a major turn off. My definitition of a person with substance is not by what can be counted. It's measured by that person's integrity and character. Earning respect is a lot more valuable than earning money to flaunt. Telling me that you're a millionaire and have this or that, is a strong indicator that you have NOTHING and resort to paying/buying relationships. If that's the case, please use some of that money to find a life coach that can teach you how to be a human being and to treat others as such. Also, being a "millionaire" doesn't privledge one to act like a crazed stalker sending messages and IM's at no end.
