to tell something about myself, i enjoy the simple things in life, i am always thankful that i am in good health cause i do believe that we are responsible for it., i mean God gave you life and you decide your lifestyle. i do exercise regularly at least 3x a week i play badminton for 3 straight hours per visit to the court it's been my sport since high-school had been joining tournaments too. i am an optimistic person, i don't just plan i dream, and i make it happen. i may look soft but i'm really a tough girl. i am now looking for my lifetime partner, someone who can be my best buddy. i like discovering new things, discovering each other's personality will be quite challenging for me too. i do believe that there's no perfect relationship but only perfect understanding of each other's differences and we can achieve that through time knowing the 3 key elements to make a relationship strong that's love, respect and trust. i do hope i will find my pillow fight opponent here. i am not a paying member so i can't read your messages and comments, i don't know how we can communicate but i hope there will be a way, i hope my soulmate will find a way. merryraker is a cartoon character that i used to draw when i was in high-school i really like the name.