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Handle:
melmd
Essay:
I'm looking for someone that knows how to relax and laugh even when situations are tough. I can usually see the humor in most things! I'm very generous and kind, but I don't let people take advantage of me. I love to make people happy and generally try to avoid conflict/drama. So, I'm looking for someone who will enjoy me for the person that I am and will do the same. I don't try to change people, but I think that I am encouraging/inspiring. I'm typically more attracted to guys that are creative, charitable, want to travel, and love sports, specifically football. Surprisingly enough, not many guys fit in these categories. I am very open-minded, non-judgemental, and just want to live a happy, successful life! If this sounds like you, too, send a message, I would love to chat! Update: I feel like what I said above is kind of surface level stuff and from the responses I'm getting, not specific enough? I hate to display some kind of list, but it seems that it's needed. And, match automatically signed me up for another 6 months, so I guess I need to get serious about this. Here's more about me, what I like, don't like: *I hate the sound of whistling... I ended up not dating a guy because he whistled constantly, in addition to singing in public. *I love the outdoors. I grew up in the Piney Woods of East Texas on a farm with cattle, 4-wheelers, a garden, etc. I find it relaxing, refreshing, exhilirating to be outdoors. I can camp in a pop-up tent and not have a single complaint. *People should be more humble. And, if I feel that you aren't humble, I just can't move forward. There is a difference in confidence and arrogance. Quiet confidence is very attractive to me. Sidenote: Pics of you with your shirt off isn't that appealing. You may look good, but it's not all about looks for most women. It makes me wonder if that's all you got going on... *I'm naturally introverted...love to read, paint, cook, knit and am quite happy alone. But, I need someone in my life to make it feel more fulfilled. And, being introverted doesn't mean I'm shy. I am talkative and quite social...I just need my space now and then. *If you are obsessed with Star Trek or hate my alma mater (Texas AM) with an unreasonable passion, we won't work ;). *If I had to choose between someone that is loud/obnoxious and quiet/self-aware, I'm going with the latter for sure. *I'm not typically attracted to guys outside of my age range, but if you are outside of that age range, surely you can determine by looking at my profile if there would be a real connection? I'm saying there are exceptions to all rules, and I'm open but not wide open. *Okay, this isn't a rule but more of annoyance...I have a difficult time taking an email or profile seriously when there is a lot of incorrect spelling and grammar. I'm not completely serious about all of the above, by the way...
Gender:
Female
City:
Irving
State:
Texas