Hmmm...where to begin? Well, I believe I am a well grounded person who is optimistic about life. I find something to look forward to every day, whether it is coming home from work to be greeted by my two cats (I am not a crazy cat lady), sleeping in fresh sheets, or something more eventful like meeting friends out for dinner and drinks. It is important to have this outlook or why bother getting up?
I have several close friends whom I have known for quite some time, and they are very dear to me. We do spend time together but sometimes our agendas differ... I am not completely sick of the bar scene because I don't frequent it too often, but when I do, I have one focus and that is to have fun with those I am with! ***Don't take this the wrong way...I am NOT a barfly! *** This is not to say I am not content staying home because I am. I find gratification in accomplishing "home" improvements, completing work related tasks, or chefing it up in the kitchen while sipping vino...and of course this is much more fun with a mate! I have several family recipes, but I do enjoy trying new culinary creations too! And my home is often the spot for dinner parties with friends and family gatherings. My family is #1 on my list...they don't depend on me for much at all, but they do expect phone calls and frequent visits and of course I am there for them.
My date? To me, good morals, values, and a job are a given...I should not have to say these are important. Maybe that's because I haven't been on a bad date in a long time! I like a man that is a "manly man" and is confident without being arrogant. Physical attraction is certainly important, but in this case a picture doesn't say a thousand words; sometimes the smallest gesture can be truly sexy! And this can only be noticed in person. I am not the type that needs to be attached at your hip 24/7 because I am independent myself, but I want someone to want me 24/7. Does that make sense?
