I am a busy professional... but I max out my time away with as much fun and new experiences as possible- traveling, relaxing and trying new things. Long term, I am looking for someone who is looking for a partner- someone they can count on like family, spend time together, and "do" life. I am not interested in becoming part of other peoples social circles so they can add more people to their fan club. If we are going to hang out it's going to be about me and you- not me, you and your three best friends. I am not totally closed off to anything - but I have lived long enough to know what I am not interested in. Good looks are important, of course- but not so much that I am willing to tolerate shallow or self absorbed people. I will take a 7 with a good personality over a 11 with a boring or lame personality any day of the week and twice on Sunday. If your profile includes pics of you flashing gang signs, and clubbing- I'm probably not interested. Most everything else we can find out about each other later.