'm a nice guy, well educated, well versed and well done? . I'm a widower and still waiting to grow up and become the cowboy of my childhood dreams. My activities include helping old ladies cross their knees,remedial courses in how to place a personal ad, short walks with long people and long walks with . On a serious note(and that's difficult), music is very much part of me. I sing in the car,the shower and selected town dumps(bad Sinatra). I play piano(bad Bill Evans-the dogs next door have a restraining order on my piano playing but I play anyhow) and love and am quite knowledgeable about Romantic and Modern classical music,film scores and jazz-bebop and beyond. I also am an ardent film buff and like the usual drivel seen in these ads, walk around your ocean, getaway weekends for 9, dining in-out-up-down and the proverbial "bearskin rug in front of a fireplace." Silliness aside, I'm a true romantic who loves Christmas, kids and the first snow. I'm very sensitive towards the feelings of others and love to help those less fortunate than myself. I can cry over a movie, a symphony or just over feeling happy at times. Sexually, I'm very kinky and open and with the exception of real. I am looking for a woman who will understand me and I will do the same in return. No games play. I need true love.