I work hard and still find time to enjoy life. I can say that I am over the "bar scene" however I do still enjoy going out. My friends would tell you that I am very honest and outgoing. I am looking for someone who is thoughtful and fun. It is also important that I am physically attracted to that person as well. Don't get me wrong, you don't have to be Brad Pitt or anything. Mostly I just want a fun, sincere, hardworking person who isn't obsessed with the idea of himself. If all those things are in place, the atttraction would definitely follow suit.