so I decided to join match in the hopes of meeting a well-rounded woman who has it together, someone who is in tune with who she really is, an identity, a sense of independence, yet still a capacity to give of herself. I seek excitement, but I also enjoy serenity (when I can find it :). I seek balance. I'd love to meet someone who I can have a great time with, but who I can also talk to. I love a woman with an opinion.