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Wanna play chase?--as spoken daily by my 3 year old niece.

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40 year old man
Elgin, Illinois, United States

Seeking:
women 28-43
Within:
100 Miles of Elgin, Illinois, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
Someday
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
Faith:
Christian / Other
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker

 

ABOUT HIM & WHO HE'S LOOKING FOR

Once upon a time, there was a guy who went home to the small town he grew up in to visit family for Thanksgiving 2013. As things slowed down, as they tend to do in this rural, snow laden town, he began to reflect a bit on his whirlwind of travel the last few months/years and consider what is next for him. Thankfully, he had come to a place in his life where there are quite a few options.

Since this guy would be 40 soon, he looked at himself in the mirror one morning and thought he still looked pretty good but not in the creepy way a guy who wants to cover his muscles with oil and glisten in a selfie might. He resisted the urge. Barely...

Instead, gratitude for the blessings in his life and the place he is now after weathering some difficulties, washed over him. Though the manual on men said it was quite a rare phenomenon, he had gotten in touch with his emotions you know.

Moving out of his parents basement (don't worry--many years ago) and finding a larger world outside of the rural bubble of his upbringing was such a good decision. Yet, he preferred the varied serenity of being a country and a city mouse.

Pursuing his desires and finding a job he didn't know existed but would do for free seemed like a pipe dream until it became a reality several years ago. Thank God when He provides such experiences. They are gifts.

Making mistakes, learning from them, forgiving those deep cuts, discovering what he really likes, trying new things, staying open to God/love in great disappointment (divorce, etc.) had given him what he liked to think of as wisdom. Thank God for those experiences. They are gifts too (but all subsequent repeat calls will be allowed to go to voicemail).

Which brings us to our current moment in the story. (Please insert a sufficient gasp of anticipation).

Since he was getting a lot of practice the last number of days, he thought maybe it was time to find his own someone special with whom to play an adult, but similar joyful, childlike version of chase. He greatly enjoyed the fun of trading chaser and chased roles with his 3 year old niece who he was visiting. Flailing arms, the high voice one speaks to a child in, sliding on the hardwood floors, the imagination of running through the blueberry forest with a stuffed animal count previously unknown to man, seemed like a good metaphor to guide his search. So he thought about expanding the circular game from the kitchen and living room to a larger equator. And he would place the invitation on a medium that stretched across the circumferance of blue ball that he and she might explore together. He hoped that right person would read his story and make herself known, so he repeated the inquiry of his opening headline. Now that the context had been provided, he awaited her reply...(I can talk normally, just having fun and being a bit 'o unique).

Interests:
Book club, Camping, Coffee and conversation, Cooking, Dining out, Fishing/Hunting, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Music and concerts, Nightclubs/Dancing, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Religion/Spiritual, Travel/Sightseeing, Volunteering, Watching sports, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Baseball, Basketball, Golf, Dancing, Running, Swimming, Tennis / Racquet sports, Walking / Hiking, Weights / Machines
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
Political views:
Some other viewpoint
Sign:
Sagittarius
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Have a drink or two, laugh a lot, share the important moments of life, travel, explore, question, give, enjoy.

Favorite hot spots:

Exploring big cities and rural out of the way places. I really enjoy beauty in its many forms and exotic destinations like India, Malaysia, Greece, Belize, etc.

Favorite things:

Holding hands, sharing new, exciting experiences as well as the deeper aspects of life, lighthearted laughter, a bit of sarcasm, good conversation, provoking each other for fun and chemistry, music for every mood, walks in the woods or on the beach.

Last read:

I read a lot. Anything with Business, Spirituality, and Psychology is usually on top of my list. The Power of Habit, Outsmarting Yourself, Challenger Sale, Thinking Fast and Slow, etc.

ABOUT... HIM HIS DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
6'0" (182cms)
5'6" (167cms) to 5'10" (177cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Slender, Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Blue
No preference
Hair:
Dark brown
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Social Drinker
Never, Social Drinker
Occupation:
Executive / Management
No preference

I work in business development/consulting. I basically get to learn, create, strategize, and help people and businesses improve. I love it.

Income:
$150,001+
No preference
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No answer
Want kids:
Someday
No preference
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
No preference
Faith:
Christian / Other
Christian / Catholic, Christian / Protestant, Spiritual but not religious, Christian / Other

I have a strong belief in God/Jesus and like to think it is a fairly mature belief. This is an important area of my life.

Languages:
English
No preference
Education:
Graduate degree
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Masters Degree in Transformational Leadership

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