Okay, I'm going to try this online dating thing again. I jumped in with both feet after my divorce last year and realized I just wasn't ready. I think I've adjusted to single life now and would love to meet someone.
I am a single dad and have my children 50% of the time, which means that I am usually free every other weekend. They have a mother and I'm not looking for a replacement. Thought I'd add that because I have met some women that have actually been concerned about that. Understandable I guess.
I can have fun in almost any situation and am looking for someone who is the same way. I can hang out at home and do nothing or hang out at a dive bar and do shots all night. Doesn't matter to me as long as it's fun. If you are a teetotaler then I may not be a good fit for you as I see nothing wrong with getting "stupid" once in awhile. I'm a huge advocate of the taxi cab by the way! I guess what I'm trying to say is that being a father and in the military requires me to be serious and grown up 90% of the time. I owe it to myself to be responsibly irresponsible from time to time. Wow, I sound like a drunk! I'm not, but if you get what I'm saying then we might get along well.
I am really into physical fitness, but that is not necessarily a prerequisite for someone I date. I had an injury last year that kept me from working out for awhile so I may or may not have gained 10 or 15 pounds. I'm healthy now and am in the process of losing my new found weight, but not quite "athletic and toned" anymore. Oh well, I'm 40 and in pretty good shape for my age at least.
I'm not into appearances and don't care what people think of me. I'm me, take it or leave it. I hope you are the same.
If you are a legitimately nice person who doesn't pass judgement on other people and have an open mind, then I like you already. I am open to meeting someone as long as they can understand that I can't just jump into a relationship after two dates. Please be patient! I'm new at this, but a great catch if your willing to take your time.