Sorry I KEEP needing a break....
UPDATE: I really am disappointed with this site and/or way of meeting men. I've cancelled my subscription ending 2/11/2013. Trying to keep the faith but if I could filter out the; flakes, full of BS, mixed signal senders, over achievers, over confidant, non-serious, unsure, not in my ballpark, would never approach me under normal circumstances, I would.
A stylish woman that has an elegance about her. Bubbly, high energy girl that enjoys getting down and dirty.. Can be a good girl that behaves appropriately or will shock a crowd if given a green light.. Love live music OVER sweaty dance clubs, working out OVER dining out and movies OVER tv.. At the end of the day I'm just a little girl that wants to be loved.. I know you're out there (?) and I'm holding out for you..... But hurry up!!!
I'm a woman that likes to have fun and enjoy life. My last relationship ended 2 years ago, I took a break from the whole single scene to concentrate on family and work. Honestly, I believe that taking the time to get to know someone and establishing feelings should come before sex, casual is not what I'm looking for, so if you're thinking "A challenge!- bet i could get in those panties" or enjoy trying out different women like they are a sampler plate, MOVE ON.
I'm looking for a handsome, secure, confident man that is intune with his inner feelings and emotions and doesn't have intimacy issues. I have a line I draw on arrogance and sarcasm. I have some "red flags" i wont tolerate rather than thinking I can accept/deal/change certain personality types. I like attention from my man and I like to give and receive affection. I want a man that takes control but is not controlling.
In the beginning it's probably best for us to be out doing something, doesn't matter what as long as it's in public. It's kind of like holding hands, once we get comfy with each other and ready to do the stay home, drink wine (or jager shots), watch the movie stage of the relationship we won't be seen in public for awhile. I'm just saying.....
I have a 16 year old daughter that is my 'mini me' so I am devoted to her for the next 2 years before I can really take off in a moments notice. I also try to set an example as to how she should insist on being treated since she is entering the age of dating and experimenting shall I say? Granted, I am the adult and bottom line is "do as I say not what I do" but it is better for her to see that I know how to reign myself in and take inventory. I teach her that words are cheap and actions speak the loudest, trust and communication along with respect are huge and instead of saying, "he is" or "I am" it should be "he seems" and "I feel", because when do we really know another person completely.
I don't enjoy dating, the thought of telling my "story" over and over again bores me. I prefer to focus on one special man rather than juggle 3 or 4. There is nothing more memorable than the "firsts" that come with new love, who wants to confuse those memories with 'which one was that with?' Further, I don't need all the calories that come along with dating, let's try comedy shows, concerts, wine and cheese on the beach, it doesn't have to be original or exciting, it's the company your with that makes an evening great.
Ultimately, I want to end up with my best friend and partner for the time I have left. I don't want to be alone and content with being alone. We don't have to be glued together and I encourage activities and interests outside of the relationship. But I do want to go to the gym together (I will spot you if you need me to ~ usually I do my thing while you do yours, it's just doing something healthy together and motivational for me) and know that my special someone is waiting for me at home when I'm out. I want us to be the best things that ever happened to each other and have that special feeling that we only get from one another. ;))))