Let's start honest:
I'm not for most girls on here. I was raised by, and believe in the old school definition of a man.
I eat meat, I have scars, I get a black eye from time to time (I'm a boxer in a gym, not a fighter in a bar) and I can clearly distinguish between intelligence and wisdom.
Because of that I have several older friends (70 year olds) that I meet for a glass of whiskey and conversation a couple nights a week. Listening to them speak about life has validated my - I'll be a man and you be a woman - POV.
If that makes you think of a caveman, I suggest making some older friends and listening (a lost art) to them speak about life over a glass of whiskey. There's another breed of man you may not have met yet. Older women swear by him.
Here's what it means to me:
If I ask you out, I believe I'm suppose to have most things planned out. I'm not a lets split the bill guy. I open doors for people - especially older people. I say please and thank you, but can convince a mugger to stay on his side of the street with a look.
I'm not afraid to admit that I make mistakes. I apologize quickly when I'm wrong and I listen when someone tells me that I've hurt them.
I take care of myself. I have an amazing mom, maybe too amazing. I think one of the best things about getting serious with me is getting to know her.
I've been told that I am a surprising contrast: I look a wee bit like a hooligan, but lucky enough to live more like the bourgeoisie.
If you're smart (biggest turn on), confident, fun and attractive you will likely win one of the four following date options: 1) Meeting for a drink 2) Going to see a show 3) Making fun of your ex while we have a nice dinner or 4) knocking over trash cans while riding beach cruisers down empty streets in the wee morning hours...
Sound good? Good! Now, hurry up and send me an email. Other girls have read this too ya know.