I have been divorced four years after being married 20. I'm looking for a companion who is loyal, honest, dependable, and respectful. I'm looking for a man who is over past relationships, into more than just himself, willing to put into a relationship what he expects in return; and, truly believes that becoming friends first is the foundation for a healthy relationship! I'm not looking for a casual relationship...I'm looking for my soul mate. I'm not the type to sugar coat anything...what you see is what you get! Having said that, I don't like smoking or facial hair. If you're looking for a perfect body, I'm not your girl, and I wish you luck in finding whatever it may be you're looking for!! On the other hand, if you find personality and intelligence attractive, I just may be the one for you!