This thing keeps switching cities - I live in North Miami, not Biscayne Park!
Been in Miami for 8 years, single just as long. One previous relationship, very thankful to have had the opportunity to find out what love is - and what it isn't. To find myself and grow, emotionally and spiritually. I learned a lot, loved so strong and haven't had that type of connection since.
Lived in many places in the USA, from coast to coast. I crave excitment and being spontaneous. If I could have it my way I'd live 6 months in a different place. I love life and living out my dreams, there's so much I still want to do that at this rate, I'm never going to die! (insert laughing joke here). I'm a mix of Dominican & PR, raised in Orlando. Independent, self sufficient,and very proud my achievements. College graduate, and self made business man. I will take a good laugh with a challenge any day over a negative attitude or whining. A good friend, neighbor, and citizen. If you can't get along with me as a friend, you can't get along with no one!
I'm not a morning person...but my partner can be - as long as he doens't wake me up. I've traveled extensively and enjoy the roads less traveled, new experiences, cultures and trying new foods.
This is the section where I'm supposed to describe "who I'm looking for". I am a complete and whole person, very happy with myself and self actualized, so I'm not out on a search. I don't have "another half" of me missing. I want someone who is also whole and complete to share my life with. I don't enjoy describing my likes and dislikes because people tend to use it as a checklist to weed themselves out. If you do, so be it, then you're not the one. If you appreciate honesty,can look past it, take it lightly and laugh about it, and be a man, then you'll be able to appreciate the spirit in which these things are said. Anyone can appear to be visually perfect, but at the end of the day what do you have without chemistry?
My ideal partner is someone who is secure in himself, caring, affectionate (let me kiss you!) and someone who I can count on. I'm a bottom looking for a Top Alpha-male type that can handle me lol. A man of the house, with a good head on his shoulders, a decision maker, self-sufficient and spiritual (or at least not get in the way of my own faith). I like a man who is in control doing the right thing, not making frivolous mistakes. I can be very submissive, but don't confuse my niceness for weakness. If we're both out in the middle of the ocean in a raft and you don't paddle, I WILL!
Turn offs: Couch potato, laying in bed all day, watching TV and allowing your brain cells to turn into mush with reality shows, Kardashians and Bravo. Whining, complaining, negativity, bad energy, messy, bad hygiene, a house or closet smells like a gym locker, a shedding pet, a unkept car, mediocraty. Being unsociable, plastic, or pretending to be something/someone you're not, South beach, shopping, malls, unwillingness or too many excuses to find employment, closet cases, flamboyant. Being in love with your body, your car, your money or your pets instead of your partner. Drama & complication. Saying something and interpreting in your brain something completely different than what was actually said. Control freaks, JELOUSY (ugh), a hairy back, drugs, club junkies, weakness.
Turn ons: Spirituality, intelligent conversation, travel, culture, brainstorming ideas for business, investments, a "yes" person, open to new experiences, meeting people, a positive attitude, professional, educated, "cojones" and a back bone to defend yourself, active, masculine, mortorcycles, trucks, affection, simplicity, take charge while respecting my boundaries and taking into consideration what "we" want instead of "I". A good salsa dancer. Nicely kept facial hair. Working out (no gym rat), fearless, HUMILITY.
Can anyone relate!? LOL - Good luck to everyone I hope you find what you are looking for.