I am a 40something widow who just wants to have fun. I am ready for the next big thing in my life. I love to dance and have fun. I do have 3 kids who are everything to me. I want somebody who wants me for me, and is willing to accept my kids. I love all kinds of music, movies, and books. I am open-minded above all else,and want somebody who is too. I am fun-loving and I enjoy a good time. The most important thing to me is that you accept the fact that I have children and they are first and foremost!