I'm more of a REAL LIFE kind of person, and online dating creeps me out a little. So if we connect, lets just pretend we're friends and see what happens ok?
I am at a point in my life where I feel like I can have anything that I want, so I guess that means being decadent and living well. But it's very important to give more than I take.
I was a total wild child growing up. I pushed all the boundaries, and in some ways I still do. But I am stable now and wiser.
I believe a woman should be a woman and a man, a man. I have a strong and dominant personality, and if you are attracted to that, we would probably get along. I have a particular concept of femininity that I am attracted to. That means an ability to be soft and nurturing, not a man with breasts. And I hate to say it, but men - me included - are visually oriented. Its just the way our lizard brains operate. So I need a woman who recognizes that and takes care of herself, and puts effort into her appearance. If you always look like you rolled out of bed in sweatpants and flip-flops, we probably would not be a good fit. BUT, beautiful women are a dime-a-dozen. I have been deceived by physical beauty before... And while it will get you in the door, its not what will keep you.