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44 year old woman
Denver, Colorado, United States

Seeking:
men 40-57
Within:
50 Miles of Denver, Colorado, United States
Relationship:
Divorced
Have kids:
No
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
Faith:
Atheist
Smoke:
No Way
Drink:
Moderately

 

ABOUT HER & WHO SHE'S LOOKING FOR

What I think it's about is loving and living consciously. With recognition that head, heart, and gut should all be listened to and that self-growth is often painful, lonely work. It's about connecting with people in meaningful, curious ways - genuine, get past the BS ways - without taking it all too seriously. I am honored to be by someone's side when the going gets tough and work hard at "paying attention" and creating my meaning as I go. Yes, this is also what it's about. Yalom nailed it I think: We are tasked with creating purpose in a world intrinsically devoid of meaning, and then must manage the tricky maneuver of denying our personal authorship of that meaning.

…Learn, sweat, plan, laugh, sweat some more, push, give without conditions, struggle, embrace hedonism, love, apologize, look more deeply, relax, love better...

Listen...This last one stands on its own.

I find the best times in life involve genuine, vulnerable connections between people who are whole, healthy, open, and intelligent. Those who know me well say I'm curious and ask a lot of questions, I'm warm and cuddly (yup, I used the word cuddly), analytical, intuitive-centric, sensual, deep, and articulate. (So I might have fished for some of these adjectives but I'm sticking to 'em.)

I resonate with two quotes: "Never stop questioning," and "Mastery is practice. Mastery is staying the path." Of course, there are parts of me I'm working on like accepting what is (a tough one), interdependence, and intensity. And if anyone over the age of 30 says they aren't working on trust, I suggest they are not particularly self-aware. I've traveled but am in need of much more exploration with sports and wine and somewhat dangerous situations as facets. While I've lived in a few other states, Colorado is my native land and so yes, I am an athletic chick. So far, hang gliding and diving have rocked my world most. But I spend a lot of athletic time skiing, cycling, and mtn biking, and I run a lot. Don't worry, you don't have to run with me. It is masochistic in a way.

What is this woman seeking? First, that magical click between two souls (do souls exist? Let's discuss) and two bodies. Bodies that will change as we get older and that's ok. Someone who enjoys what they do and worked hard to get there. A stimulating conversationalist who embraces debate. Relax, I won't bite. Well, ok, I might. An articulate, clear communicator who knows how to fashion a statement and pays attention to language. Yea, I'm one of those irritating people who finds all the grammatical and spelling errors in these profiles. Can't help it. And journalists who misuse the word literal? I've learned to just breathe deeply through those moments now.

A curious mind is critical. Someone who can express how he has changed as a person over the years and what he is working on right now. Someone who has a mature relationship with honesty, is highly self-aware, silly and joyful often, clearly athletic, very affectionate, and has more in his wardrobe than fleece and jeans. (Yup, turns out every girl really is crazy about a sharp dressed man.)

Emotional maturity is a big one and certainly something that's a work in progress for us all. He must be OK w/ conflict and know how to work through it skillfully. Though no one likes being out of harmony, it is a reality at times, so if you tend to avoid uncomfortable discussions, or if this is what you really mean by "drama-free," then I am assuredly not the woman for you. Political and religious leanings matter as they are indicative of personal values. I'm liberal (generally) and an atheistic rationalist and seek at least some degree of sync up here. Or hey, maybe the debates will just be more fun.

Finally, young kids at home every other weekend without frequent sitter support isn't likely a fit. Time together becomes just too limited.

Good luck out there. Let's be kind.

Interests:
Camping, Coffee and conversation, Dining out, Movies/Videos, Museums and art, Exploring new areas, Performing arts, Playing cards, Playing sports, Political interests, Travel/Sightseeing, Wine tasting
Sports & exercise:
Auto racing / Motorcross, Billiards / Pool, Bowling, Cycling, Football, Dancing, Inline skating, Running, Skiing, Tennis / Racquet sports, Weights / Machines, Yoga, Other types of exercise, Hockey, VolleyBall
Exercise habits:
I exercise 5 or more times per week
Pets:
I have Cats
Pet Essay:

Have a cat and like dogs but pooches are too much time and work for the lifestyle I lead. And very often they are poorly trained. (PLEASE get your nose out of my crotch.) If I had access to a horse, I would ride and ride.

Political views:
Liberal
Sign:
Leo
College:
I'll tell you later
For fun:

Outdoor sports, good friends, dinner parties, Indie films, good TV, conversations that span the philosophical to the ridiculous. Bike, ski, run, H2O sports, attend theater and lectures, read/podcast. Surprise me.

Favorite hot spots:

Lo Do, Aspen, San Fran, a ski slope, a Colorado stream, a campfire, the Montmartre district of Paris, anywhere on the Med, my mom's house, a place I haven't been yet, the arms of my beloved...

Favorite things:

...a sunset, a powerful moment with someone, chai latte at Camp4 Coffee in Crested Butte, truly excellent chocolate, the scent of falling rain and fresh cut lilacs, cold hitting my skin for my morning run, my friends, my work, my health, laughter..

Last read:

Richard Dawkins' The God Delusion, Jimmy Carter's latest, read a lot of professional stuff and big fan of podcasts. Some favs: Intelligence Squared Debates, Rationally Speaking, Bill Maher,The Moth, TED, Sound Opinions, The New Yorker.

ABOUT... HER HER DATE
APPEARANCE:
Height:
5'9" (175cms)
5'9" (175cms) to 6'7" (200cms)
Body type:
Athletic and toned
Athletic and toned
Eyes:
Brown
No preference
Hair:
Dark blonde
No preference
   
LIFESTYLE:
Smoke:
No Way
No Way
Drink:
Moderately
No preference
Occupation:
Other profession
No preference

I'm a consulting psychologist to leadership in large organizations. I just left full-time employment to start my own business in the field. Enjoy my work quite a bit.

Income:
$100,001 to $150,000
$75,001 to $100,000, $100,001 to $150,000, $150,001+
Relationship:
Divorced
Never Married, Widow / Widower, Divorced
Have kids:
No
No, Yes, and they live away from home
Want kids:
No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
No, No, but it's OK if my partner has kids
   
BACKGROUND/VALUES:
Ethnicity:
White / Caucasian
White / Caucasian

Typical Euro-American mutt. Scottish and Dutch roots. One of my areas of professional focus is cross-cultural organizations so I dig differences in approaching life and the world.

Faith:
Atheist
No preference

I'm atheist and integrate some pieces of Buddhist psychology into my life and work. (For those of you tempted - and yes, this is a fairly regular occurrence - please refrain from sending me a note telling me you will pray for me. Bless you child.)

Languages:
English, French
No preference
Education:
PhD / Post Doctoral
Bachelors degree, Graduate degree, PhD / Post Doctoral

Bachelors in business and marketing and a masters in counseling psychology. PhD in counseling psychology with consulting psych emphasis.

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