NOT TO BE RUDE BUT CAN PEOPLE READ, YOU HAVE TO BE ON LONG ISLAND NEW YORK WITHIN FIFTY MILES, LOL
Lets see, what Im looking for is someone who is a truly caring, guenuine person who looks out for others best interest as well as their own. Someone who know that relationships take work and arent always smooth sailing and sticks it out but there are some exceptions to sticking it out, there are some times you have to walk away even if you dont want to. A key to any relationship is communication and respect. Many times people misunderstand each other. I can have a habit of sticking my foot in my mouth without realizing the way it came out but its never because I mean any harm.
Someone who knows that the most important thing is caring, honesty and communication, not money. Sure I would like someone who is motivated and ambitious because i think i am and i think you have to enjoy life, but I dont want that to be what defines me or the person Im with. To me money doesnt really mean anything as long as your happy and content with the people in your life. I grew up by an old fashioned italian grandma and in those days respect, caring and being true to your word meant everything , that seems to be gone these days. Thats what Im looking for. I also do not want any drama and I am looking for a long term relationship. Ive learned all the lessons ive needed to learn. I would like someone who knows what it means to truly be a good person and lives there life by it. NO DRAMA. Ive been through many long relationships and was just never ready until now. Now I am. Hoping to find that person to spend my life with and would like at least one child. I guess ive also waited so long because I think todays society is way to quick to toss away family and marriages and so many people are living caotic lives. I like the old fashioned days. Luv the book Bill Oreilly whose looking out for you.
I think the only way to care is with everything you have or why be there in the first place. If I go on more then one date with somone, its where I want to be, I have no need to just occupy my time with someone, Ive got enough things in my life to keep me occupied. If Im there its because I truly care and want to be there. If your into games or drama please go look somewhere else. I like to go out and do anything, just drinking or the bar scene not my thing, never has been. I dont mind it once in awhile.
I want someone who will always look out for my best interests and vice versa. Life is too short not to be happy.