I'm looking for someone with a similar mindset. I am focused and determined but I do not let the little things control my attitude. I see to many people worrying about "what's next" and focusing on where they are going to be in 10 years that they forget to really sit back and relish what is going on around them. I work extremely hard in everything I do but I try to make sure and remind myself as often as possible what I am doing it for. I have a very relaxed and fun mindset when i go home, but when I'm at work I am extremely focused.
I love going out, but on workdays I like to enjoy smaller activities so I can get rest for the next day. Movie or a game and some dinner do it for me. Of course sometimes its fun to throw one of those random nights in there to go out :)