It's my first year in NYC and I like the city. After finished my master's program in SF, I decided to move over to NYC for a better opportunity. The city provides an easy access to a diversity of cultures, perspectives, life styles, etc. Despite that, I feel something is missing. NYC is a great city for dating, but only for dating. For me, I would rather spending time on one relationship that might lead to something more meaningful in the future instead of hopping around among the crowd of people that are seeking the same.
I am a wonderful person and I am still working to better myself every day. I am honest, caring, smart, fun, and positive. I take care of myself and I also like to take good care of my loved ones. I like to smile and I also make people smile -- Smiles are contagious! I have a sense of humor that only caters to certain types of people, and I use it as a parameter to see if we have the right chemistry. I dont go extremes, and I pursue a philosophy of mediocrity and I apply it to every aspects of my life -- balance is the key to happiness.
Enough being said about myself, I find it hard to use words to describe the type of person that I am looking for. Words are very lame in the sense that the same word could be applied to completely different person. In the end, you still have to meet that person to see if he is right. But in general, I would say that I like guys that not only have modern perspectives but also retain traditional values; guys that keep his word and don't show up late; guys that not only take actions but also take responsibilities for the actions taken; guys who are independent thinkers but also willing to share with his loved ones what's on his mind; and last but not the least, guys that don't smoke and don't drink excessively....
Email me if you think that I am the right girl and also you might be the right guy.