After many attempts at writing something that would make me stick out from a crowd, I don't think there is a true way of doing that. There is nothing I can say by typing it to get yours, or anyones attention. The simple fact is, your going to do the same thing a man does. You look at the picture and if you don't like it you will not respond. No matter how many times I have read from ladies profiles, it's his personality, his manners, being well dressed, active, good sense of humor, and hay what about that intelectual stimulation, and someone fun to be with. It's the first impression your going by and thats a picture. Also if you can't be honest enough to post a current picture like me, how does that reflect into a honest beginning?. Just be honest!!!!!!!! and I will. Do you want a good guy, boring, or a good guy with alittle devil in him? I would bet if any one of you that I write, took the time to know me as a person, you would be shocked. supperised and left a little perplexed as to why you didn't answer me before. We all take a chance by being on here, why don't answer me or write!. Go ahead do it!, I'm trying this for another 3 months and lets see? News Flash, after looking at my competition, I wonder if this site or any other is going to work, DAMN, I had no idea there were that many people within 5 years of my age single, We should just have a big damn party then we wouldn't need these web sites, lol. OK after a month off, I'm recharged and ready to go, :)