What i am seeking....hmmm, I am looking for a good man that wants to be in a real relationship to settle down if things go well. I truly believe that there are good men that are out here that are looking for the same in a woman, and yes, i am her. I would like to find someone that i am compatable with and that wants the same things in life that i do, ultimately, just to be happy. I Have attempted this a few times, and to no avail. I think that in a relationship, it takes work. You cant give up if you are truly seeking happiness, if you want something, you have to work at it like you do anything else in life. I am willing to do that. Everyone is not perfect, or should i say no one is perfect, we all make mistakes, but to forgive, thats a powerful tool.......A God fearing man is definately a good thing for me. I think that it helps to better build a relationship and helps you to respect the person so much more. I am not on this site for casual dating, i am looking for the real deal..smile, if you feel that you meet this, please feel free to contact me. If youre not , then why even get anything started that is not going to end in a good note? I truly believe that God will send someone good my way, and I hope that if he is out there, he will find me.I am not looking for a bunch of games here. Playas, no way, i am not your woman...lol, kind, considerate, loving, spiritual, yes, thats what i want.